If you have tried to find genuine love and have failed thus far, don’t poison your mind with the false perception, “No one would ever want me.” That is one of the dangerous, deadly traps that can destroy YOU emotionally! Be Patient and don’t turn into a “patient” by worrying yourself to death! Be free and open to Live, Love, and Laugh. Stop being anxious! Keep your Heart Open, but your eyes Wide Open! Regardless of how breathtaking the love affair is going or how amazing the beginning is, take time to “check your intuition.” It is God-given, so use it!

You must be able to love yourself before you can love someone else!

Sexual intimacy can be a blinder! Do not be led by your hormones, but be led by your head and your heart. Always remember that if you hold love too loosely, it will fly away; if you hold it too tightly, it will suffocate!

Remember, a healthy relationship is like a healthy body; it makes you feel alive and well, but an unhealthy relationship is like an unhealthy person, sick and tired! This is one of the most obvious Warning Signs that we ignore.

Healthy relationships make you feel good about yourself and your companion. If you find yourself feeling sick and tired instead of healthy and happy, then you are more than likely in an unhealthy relationship. Imagine if you felt physically sick in your body 20 days out of a 30-day period. Eventually, you would begin to think that something was definitely wrong. What would you do if it happened “consistently” throughout the year? Would you think that something was seriously wrong at that point?

If we compare our emotional health to physical health, we will not engage in unhealthy relationships or situations that we often find ourselves in! We would not allow our bodies to stay sick that long without trying to get help or get rid of what was making us sick!

Well, let us do just that! Treat our hearts like our lives depend on them; after all, they are the most vital part of the body.

REAL TALK – Ladies and Gentlemen!